An Indian Army officer is reportedly facing potential disciplinary action after publicly proposing marriage during a Passing Out Parade in Nashik. Captain Bharat Bhardwaj went down on one knee to ask his partner, Arushi, to marry him at the conclusion of the Combat Army Aviation Training School's (CAATS) ceremony on May 2.
The romantic gesture, captured in videos that quickly circulated on social media, has drawn strong disapproval from senior levels within the Indian Army. Sources indicate that the incident is viewed as a clear violation of established military norms and protocols, including the Defence Technical Publicity Rules (DTPR), 2004, and other internal directives governing conduct at such formal events.
Violation of Military Protocol
According to military insiders, a Passing Out Parade is considered a solemn and significant professional milestone, not an appropriate setting for personal celebrations. "The Passing Out Parade is a formal military occasion that marks a significant professional milestone. It is not a platform for personal displays or private celebrations," a source stated, emphasizing the dignity and symbolism inherent in such ceremonies.
Captain Bhardwaj, still in his ceremonial uniform after completing his aviation training, made the proposal in front of fellow officers, instructors, family members, and guests. Arushi accepted, and the moment was met with applause from the crowd. Bhardwaj later explained that he chose the day, which also marked his becoming a pilot and instructor, to make it memorable for his fiancée.
Preserving Sanctity of Ceremonies
However, Army officials stress that personal moments should remain private and not overshadow formal ceremonies where officers are commissioned and entrusted with national responsibilities. "Such occasions carry immense dignity and symbolism. Every institution and ceremony has its own sanctity, which must be preserved and respected with the utmost seriousness," another source added.
The CAATS Passing Out Parade on May 2 saw 59 officers graduate, with 25 receiving their Flying Wings after successfully completing Basic Flying Training, marking their entry into various aviation roles within the Army.